Boundaries

I read that the having basic boundaries defines you to be different from some else give you control and will bring happiness to your life.

Have you ever was cornered into doing something that you didn't want to do? Have you been doing more work at your job, home or social activity because you just could say no? Do people just know they can call on you anytime without notice?

I have, I was very quilty of that, then one day I decided that I need to make boundaries. When my schedule was full, I gave myself permission to say NO.

When I was called on to rescue some one who did not take responsiblity or plan correctly. I simply said, I understand your problem, but at this time, I am not able to help you with this or that whatever it is. When I found myself being spinned by someone elses world, I refuse to allow it to happen. What I found out that I had more respect when I decided to take control. No more, last minute calls to do something. I was asked ahead of time. If it fit my schedule in life then I welcomed it and felt good about doing it. When your forced you become resentful. I became free.

No, is so hard for people who have not taken control of their life. We can get caught up in allowing others to control our time and space. The first is setting limits on others not that you don't love them or being selfish. Its necessary for you to have time for yourselve to revive your thought and actions.

Here are some boundaries you should take into consideration:

1. Physical Boundaries- Who is allow to get close to you.

2. Mental Boundaries - Gives you the freedom to think for yourself.

3. Emotional Boundaries- A must to deal with your own emotions and disonnect with harmful and manipulative people.

4. Spiritual Boundaries- Helps you find the Higher Power in you life and renew your mind.

Setting boundaries for your business, job, family and friends will give you a new freedom. You will feel better about yourself because you will have control of your time to just you.

Setting boundaries is a must do. Start today take control over your life.